Dating a mamas boy
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She says her husband’s mother has more rights than her and he won’t do anything he thinks his mom would be uncomfortable with.“Everything we do as a couple or family, has to go through his mother.
It is understandable when a girl “gossips” about her relationship with other girls, or a man with his guy group. If you go through his call log, you will notice they have talked several times during the day. Mama’s boy have a bond that when she is not around, he is incomplete! Even when they are old enough to move, they don’t seem to have any plan to moving out soon.Nosizwe Dlangalala* is just over 30 and has been married to her husband for eight years.She says when they started dating, she knew he loved his mom but never thought everything would have to be about her, more especially in marriage.The best advice is to look for the signs while you are dating, to ensure that your man is not an undercover mama’s boy. Look for signs that he is calling his mother when he is not with you. But if your man seems to disappear just to dial his mother, when he knows you are out of ear shot – you can bet he is a mama’s boy. If you know your man isn’t the particularly neat and tidy kind, but his house is impeccable and he doesn’t have a maid – watch out.Dating a mama’s boy is definitely one of the largest trials in a relationship. Might be that he spends his weeknights being tended to by mama, evident by creases in his jeans that he has never sent off to the dry cleaners. Tupperware containers filled with meals labeled by the day of the week could mean something beside OCD. In your relationship, you probably think it’s cute, even sweet that he takes such good care of his mother.” Some can even hold out until the queasiness of pregnancy and childbirth is upon them.
But when the big reveal comes…it is insidious and can completely make the ‘other women’ in their life feel manipulated and powerless against the looming power of Mama!
As time goes on though you will realize that the obsession becomes a little weird.
There is nothing wrong with a man loving his mom, even making sure that she is always okay.
But when he depends upon her, cannot go a day without calling her (and she’s not sick) or she is the first person he does call when he has something as trite as a stuffy nose, you are in deep doodoo.
A woman shares the difficulties of being married to a man who after eight years of marriage still seeks the approval of his mom for everything and tells us how how she copes They say the way a man treats his mother is an indication of how he’ll treat you.
In fact, hundreds of couples have been through these challenges and found ways to deal with them.