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Ten years before, only 26 percent of men and 20 percent of women reported having had anal sex."Anal is the new oral," says syndicated sex columnist Dan Savage.
But it’s not an uncommon stance lately, particularly after Gillian Flynn’s now-infamous “cool girl” rant from “Gone Girl” that says women who enjoy sex acts that may be perceived as male-appeasing fantasies, such as anal penetration, are faking their interest in order to attract and keep men in a competitive dating environment. I’m a woman who likes anal sex, and I’m going to turn the tables here and say I think it’s weird that you think that’s weird.
With all due respect to Salt-N-Pepa, let's talk about Todd. He's a rare breed—a finance guy who lives in L. He's been dating the same ladylike woman for three years.
They are the picture of late-twentysomething, Amstel Light—drinking America.
Woman B: If it didn't, this wouldn't be a topic of conversation. Woman A: I decided to try it because I'd heard it can be really pleasant and some girls can orgasm from it. ) Woman D: You never really get used to the initial thrust, but once you know what to expect it’s pretty enjoyable. [but] it's one of those things that definitely takes more than one try to see if you like it. Woman D: I’ve never really heard of people getting that waxed unless it’s part of a Brazilian wax. Woman C: Lube is tricky because you don't know if it will feel okay until you try it. Woman B: Sheet stains are a risk and should be considered collateral damage. Unless you're using the entire bottle of lube (probably not recommended) anal sex isn't any messier than vaginal sex in my experience. It really all depends on where you’re doing it and if you’re concerned that it’s going to get messy. Woman B: [Not unless you had] Chipotle [beforehand]. For me, it's something that only lasts five minutes. Woman D: Other than being covered in coconut oil, I’ve never really experienced a big mess. I've tried other positions but found doggy to be the best one.
It's also really taboo and naughty, and I'm one of those girls who likes that. Woman B: I usually only do it when drunk and if trying to impress the lucky dude I'm with. and afterward, I kind of feel like he "owes me something."Woman C: I've done it with a few guys and it's always been a mutual desire. Like you're trying to open a muscle and stretch it out and it doesn't want to listen. Woman A: We had been together for seven months before we did it. in my experience, if he's into it, you know soon into the relationship. The first time I used lube during anal sex (I think it was KY) I actually felt an uncomfortable tingling sensation when the anal intercourse started that wore off eventually, but it wasn't very pleasant. Woman A: I did it doggy style the first time and then I did it with him sitting on a couch (I was on top with my back to his chest sitting on him). And according to two gay guys I know, the correct way to do it is to have the girl on top and she can ease herself down and go at her own pace, and once that happens you can flip yourself over so he's on top now and then you can do whatever you want. Woman D: Doing it doggy style is the most comfortable way, but I’ve heard of women getting on top and riding the guy.
I was so anti-anal sex, but I love my BF for taking it slow.
Now I want it all the time."So how do some women go from "No effing way am I doing that" to "Oh my effing God, don't stop"?Those letters are now dwarfed by letters from women asking how to take it up the butt." Okay.But pronouncements and statistics that indicate the rising popularity of rearguard action don't address some nagging questions—the biggest one being how, presuming they haven't had their own rectums messed with, can so many guys justify asking women to let them take the service elevator?Recently I came across an article posted on the Urban Dater written by a woman who just doesn’t believe women can actually enjoy anal sex.She even insinuates that articles written in praise of the amazing orgasms women can sometimes experience from anal penetration may actually be written by men propagating a falsehood in the hopes of encouraging more women to spread their cheeks for the dicks of men everywhere.Like so: First, chill out."If you're hesitant, nervous, or not into it, no one is going to get off, and what's the point of that? Try deep-breathing exercises or a glass of wine to relax.